Men only: what would you think in this situation with a girl who loves you..?

If indeed he is a "good guy" he probably feels very uncomfortable when he hears from you. He obviously wants to move forward with his life and the fact that you do not, would make him feel a certain amount of guilt. I do not want to dampen your spirits, but bear in mind that if he did respond to you on these terms, it would probably destroy the good feelings that you have for him, because guilt, deserved or not, makes one bitter.