Husband problems please help ladies and men?

This is a tough situation to be in. What reason, if any did he say, why he didn't want to go on the ship? First thing you need to do is find out why he didn't want to stay in the Navy. He was in the Navy for over a year, something has happened to make him not want to go back. You need to drag it out of him. Your right, he has to work, and no one would blame you if you decided to end the relationship if he's not pulling his own weight. You can't do it all alone. You also have a child to consider. The right thing to do, would be to give it a little while longer, long enough for you to talk to him and see what his intentions are. Let him know that you can do bad all by yourself. Tell him he has to work and help out, otherwise your going to let him go. Give him a certain amount of time to find a decent job by, and if he doesn't..move on.. God Bless