Please helppp. its about boys of course?

kk so i have been talking to this boy from a school that im going to and we have talked so far for like an hour of just us talking on facebook and so on his relationship statues he has himself as in a relationship but when i asked him wats up he said notin much just chillin on the pc. hbu ii and i wrote back excuse me? lol ... and so he didnt write back and i kinda like this kid so you know i wanted to talk to him more so i said after a day i said so wats up and he said nottin just chillin and then im like okayy arent you going to ask me... so i just wrote kool :P annd he hasnt written back.. now my friend said that he is a player. should i write to him or not? cause i feel like ima be a nag if i do.. please help and thanks a bunch